God’s Pruning

Anne Graham Lotz

 

 

God will not cut you back so much that you are broken beyond the ability to grow, nor will He quench you to the point that you give up and quit. So trust Him. He’s been pruning for years. He knows what He’s doing.

Every branch that does bear fruit he trims clean so that it will be even more fruitful (John 15:2, NIV).

You and I can trust the Gardener to skillfully, personally, lovingly, and effectively prune the “vines” of our lives. Isaiah described the gentle skillfulness of His touch when he revealed, “A bruised reed he will not break, and a smoldering wick he will not snuff out” (Isa. 42:3, NIV). In other words, God will not cut you back so much that you are broken beyond the ability to grow, nor will He quench you to the point that you give up and quit. So trust Him. He’s been pruning for years. He knows what He’s doing.

While cutting is drastic and encourages new growth, clipping is used mainly to control and shape the growth of the plant. This encourages fruitfulness by concentrating the energy of the vine into the fruitful areas of the branch. The Gardener clips even a fruitful branch, as Jesus described: “Every branch that does bear fruit he trims clean so that it will be even more fruitful.” 



Sacrifice of Praise

I don’t know who wrote this, but it’s a very good article!

“Most Americans tend to worship their work, to work at their play and to play at their worship”. Warren Wirsbe.

What is sacrifice? To sacrifice means to “surrender”, “give-up”, “to offer” something of value that we would rather hold on to. The reason it is called a “sacrifice of praise” is because we often have to give up our convenience and feeling. Abraham was the first individual in the Bible to mention the word “worship” in Genesis 22:5. Abraham learned about worship when God not only stopped giving TO him, but instead required something OF him. He spoke about worship when he was on the way to offer Isaac. From the very beginning, we learn that worship is often sacrificial. It is not something we do only when it is convenient.

Michael J Fox has had Parkinson’s disease for about 10 years, and its getting progressively worse. He said in his book that “if you made a deal with God that he would take away my Parkinson’s disease and cancel out the last ten years of my life, I would tell you to take a hike. My life is so good now. I’m helping a lot of people cope with the stigma of this disease. And it makes me appreciate life as a precious gift.”

Job is another example of sacrificial praise. He was wealthy and healthy. Within a short time, he lost all his 10 children, his possessions and his health. Rather than curse God and die as suggested by his wife, he said:

“At this, Job got up and tore his robe and shaved his head. Then he fell to the ground in worship and said:
“Naked I came from my mother’s womb,
and naked I will depart.
The LORD gave and the LORD has taken away;

may the name of the LORD be praised” Job 1:20-21.

How do you lose everything and still worship? That is the sacrifice of praise.

Frank Foglio’s daughter was injured in a car accident. Her brain was severely damaged, and her condition grew steadily worse. Finally she had to be placed in institution for the mentally ill. 7 years after the accident, things had not improved. In fact his daughter had once clawed her way out of a straitjacket and tried to hang herself with a bed sheet.

The absolute hopelessness of the situation had started to take its toll on Frank, and his faith started to waver. On one very difficult journey to the institution, Frank was arguing with God.”How could You be a God of love? I wouldn’t permit such a thing to happen to my daughter if I had the power to prevent it. You could heal her. But You won’t”. Frank felt his anger rising against God. “Praise Me,” a Voice said to him. “What for?” Frank replied. Praise Me that your daughter is where she is. “Never!” he spit out. “I would rather die than do that” The Voice said again, “Thank Me that your daughter is exactly where she is,” Frank said, “God, I couldn’t praise You if I tried. And I’m not going to try, because I don’t believe I should” As Frank continued toward the mental home, the Holy Spirit worked in his heart, and he felt his attitude begin to soften. A little further along, he confessed, “I would praise You, but You would have to help me.”

After arriving at the institution. Frank went through the procedures to get clearance to get into the most restricted part of one of the buildings. Sometimes, he wondered why he continued to come. His daughter didn’t recognize him. Finally, Frank was in the last waiting room, the one that separated him from the ward. One steel door remained to be opened. Standing before it, Frank Foglio heard the calm and firm voice of God one more time: “Thank Me that your daughter is exactly where she is.” Frank finally whispered his surrender: “Okay, God. I thank you that my daughter is where she is. I know that you love her more than I do.” At that moment a vaguely familiar voice cried out, “I want my daddy; I want my daddy” The attendant opened the door, and Frank raced to his daughter’s compartment. Clothed in her right mind, she threw out her arms and embraced her father. Nurses, attendants, and guards gathered around in disbelief and joy. Daughter was able to come home that day, after 7 years.

We learn from the 3 Hebrew men that worship is great when you serve a God who can deliver you from any circumstance no matter how difficult. But what will you do if He doesn’t? Their attitude to worship was unchanged despiteNebuchadnezzar’s threat of capital punishment:

“Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego replied to the king, “O Nebuchadnezzar, we do not need to defend ourselves before you in this matter. If we are thrown into the blazing furnace, the God we serve is able to save us from it, and he will rescue us from your hand, O king. But even if he does not, we want you to know, O king, that we will not serve your gods or worship the image of gold you have set up.” Daniel 3:16-18 NIV.

Sacrifice of praise involves all of you. It involves your spirit, soul and body (Rom 12:1, Ps. 51:17).

The sacrifice of praise = sacrifice of our spirit + soul + body (Heb 13:15.)

There is no such thing as partial sacrifice. In the Old Testament, the animal for sacrifice paid for it with its life. It was a total sacrifice. However, the animal could only be offered once because it was dead. The Lord Jesus modeled for us an example of a living sacrifice. He died once like the Old Testament lamb but He rose from the dead to become a living sacrifice. A living sacrifice can be offered repeatedly as long as there is life. A living sacrifice should be useful to God throughout his/her life. You life and mine can be continually offered unto God as a living sacrifice until we see Him face to face. When we offer ourselves as a living sacrifice, our usefulness is just beginning.

How does anyone go through the ups and downs of life and still give thanks to the Lord always? 1 Thessalonians 5:18, Ephesians 5:19-20, Colossians 3:16-17. It is impossible to do so except you learn to praise him during the “valley” days when the fig tree does not blossom. You praise Him when every fiber of your being is against worship. The thirty years of war in Germany was possibly the worst war in the history of mankind in terms of the sheer number of deaths. Historians estimate that the population of central Europe dropped from 21 to 13.5 million during the war. Toward the end of the war in 1636 there was a pastor whose name was Martin Rinkert. In a single year, this pastor buried 5,000 people because he was the only pastor left in his city. He averaged 15 funerals a day, but sometimes did as many as 50.

During that time he wrote one of the best loved hymns.

Now thank we all our God,

With heart and hands and voices,

Who wondrous things has done,

In Whom this world rejoices;

Who from our mothers’ arms

Has blessed us on our way

With countless gifts of love,

And still is ours today.

Bob Reccord wrote, “I suffered a severe cervical spinal injury. The only way I could relieve the pain was to use a strong, prescribed narcotic and to lie on bags of ice. Sleep, came only by sitting in a reclining chair. Approximately 48 hours from the onset of the injury, doctors estimated that I lost about 80 percent of the strength in my left arm. Three fingers on my left hand totally lost feeling. Even the slightest movements would send pain waves down my left side and shoulder. I was required to wear a neck brace 24 hours a day for five weeks.

About halfway through that experience, I found myself sitting on the screened-in porch behind our home. The day was cold and blustery, but I was committed to being outside, just for a change of scenery. Suddenly a bird landed on the railing and began to sing. On that cold, rainy day, I couldn’t believe any creature had a reason to sing. I wanted to shoot that bird! But he continued to warble, and I had no choice but to listen. The next day found me on the porch again, but this time the atmosphere was bright, sunny, and warm. As I sat, being tempted to feel sorry for myself, suddenly the same bird returned. And he was singing again! Where was that shotgun?

Then an amazing truth hit me head on: the bird sang in the cold rain as well as the sunny warmth. His song was not altered by outward circumstances, but it was held constant by an internal condition”

The story of Paul & Silas is often told with the emphasis on miraculous deliverance. It becomes more impressive when you read that they were severely beaten before being thrown into jail in shackles. What led to the beating? They delivered a girl from demons.

“When the owners of the slave girl realized that their hope of making money was gone, they seized Paul and Silas and dragged them into the marketplace to face the authorities……..The crowd joined in the attack against Paul and Silas, and the magistrates ordered them to be stripped and beaten. After they had been severely flogged, they were thrown into prison, and the jailer was commanded to guard them carefully. Upon receiving such orders, he put them in the inner cell and fastened their feet in the stocks. Acts 16:19-24.

Is it not remarkable that after an ordeal such as this, Paul and Silas will keep awake at midnight offering a sacrifice of praise? This is one of the best examples of a living sacrifice. May you be unto God a living sacrifice for the rest of your life in Jesus name.



The power of forgiveness

An article from Barbara Rainey
 
The power of forgiveness lies in its ability to replay God’s forgiveness over and over.

As a new bride, I knew that many aspects about my marriage to Dennis would be different from what I expected. But I’ve still been surprised by this truth: Even after more than 40 years together, our need to forgive each other is as fresh as it was on our wedding day. You’d think we would have learned not to say unkind things, not to hurt each other, not to take each other for granted. But we are imperfect human beings who don’t love each other as well as we wish.

As Henri Nouwen wrote, “Forgiveness is the name of love practiced among people who love poorly.” And because we love poorly, we must forgive frequently.

Sometimes I wish that wasn’t the case–that we would outgrow the need to forgive each other frequently. But then I remember that this is what Christianity is all about: a loving and compassionate God pursuing His stubborn, sinful creation. He demonstrated this love by sending His Son, Jesus Christ, to die for us while we were still sinners (see Romans 5:8). He forgave us and made it possible for us to enjoy fellowship with Him. And He calls us to forgive each other as He has forgiven us (see Ephesians 4:32). That’s why marriage is a reflection of the gospel, a picture of Christ’s relationship with the church.

Christianity, then, is all about forgiveness. And a great marriage is, in the words of Ruth Bell Graham, “the union of two good forgivers.” Two imperfect people living together will need to forgive each other multiple times–maybe even each day. And by the way, If you add children to the family, the need for forgiveness will be compounded because of the increased number of sinful people who are living under one roof!

One of my favorite stories about forgiveness is that of Joseph in the Old Testament. He was sold into slavery by his jealous brothers, who told their father that he had been killed by a wild animal. Joseph was taken on to Egypt where he was sold again, this time to an officer in the army. Later he was unfairly sent to prison for something he did not do. But instead of being angry, Joseph believed God was with him. He believed God was to be trusted, feared, and obeyed.

Eventually, through God’s providence, Joseph rose to a position of great power and influence. Fast forward another 12 years, and Joseph was busy meeting with people from all over world who had come to request food to survive a severe famine. And who showed up begging for food? His brothers.

Joseph could have used his power to seek revenge on his brothers, and who would have blamed him? Instead he forgave them and told them, “Do not fear, for am I in the place of God? As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good, to bring it about that many people should be kept alive, as they are today” (Genesis 50:19-20).

Joseph’s story illustrates the truth that forgiveness means giving up the right to punish the person who sins against you. Often it may feel as if you are going against everything inside you–your desire for justice, for revenge. But it is grace in action–giving the person something he or she doesn’t deserve.

Perhaps that’s why forgiveness will feel more reasonable, and perhaps a bit easier, if you remember the grace of God in your own life. The power of forgiveness lies in its ability to replay God’s forgiveness over and over. Forgiveness announces the gospel and its unparalleled healing power to a broken world.

In the end, forgiveness means cooperating with God’s plan. Joseph recognized that God had directed His life for His own purposes: God had taken an unspeakably cruel act that Joseph’s brothers had meant for evil and, ultimately, had used it to save the Jewish people.

In a similar manner, you must cooperate with God’s plan for the intimate relationship you share in marriage. Your spouse may hurt you more deeply than any other person ever has. Yet if God forgives you daily, how can you not do the same?



In Times of Trouble, Shout For Joy

 

 

Dr. Henry Blackaby

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God is honored when there is a constant “shout of joy” on our lips even when we are in the midst of trouble.

David expresses his enormous faith in God throughout the Psalms, but especially in Psalms 32, 33 and 34. In these Psalms he expresses a much-needed approach to suffering and trouble. Twice he says “shout for joy”. And in Psalm 32:7b he says, “… You will surround me with songs of deliverance….” In other words, in the midst of trouble, God Himself will surround him with songs of deliverance, or victory! This is David’s way of describing his faith in God.

Hebrews 11:1 expresses this another way: “… now faith is the substance [realization or confidence] of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen….” As the old hymn states it, faith IS the victory that overcomes the world. So David is bearing witness to the faithfulness of God in his life. In times of trouble, he can “sing to the Lord and shout for joy” because he is confident that God not only WILL give him victory, but has ALREADY given it to him. It is only a matter of time until he possesses this victory of God for his life.

Now I sense that the “shout of joy” is a victory shout. Such a shout does two things, among others:

1) It unnerves the enemy.

2) It encourages and emboldens God’s people.

Perhaps we could picture this in terms of teams about to go into “conflict” in a game. They gather together, put their arms around each other (sometimes with the coach in the middle) and utter the loudest shout they can. It is a shout of anticipated victory over their rivals. When the opposing team hears this shout and sees their confidence, it is hoped that this will in some way unsettle them. It also gives courage to the team even if they are playing the strongest team in their league.

So listen to David in these Psalms: “… everyone who is godly shall pray to You in a time when You may be found; surely in a flood of great waters they shall not come near him. You are my hiding place; You shall preserve me from trouble; You shall surround me with songs of deliverance….” (Psalm 32:6-7). Again, “… I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will guide you with My eye … [He] who trusts in the Lord, mercy shall surround him. Be glad in the Lord and rejoice, you righteous, and shout for joy, all you upright in heart!” (Psalm 32:8,10,11).

David constantly expresses this joy in victory, even when in the midst of trouble. In Psalms 33 and 34, “… I sought the Lord, and He heard me … and delivered me from all my fears … [They] looked to Him and were radiant; and their faces were not ashamed … [This] poor man cried out, and the Lord heard him, and saved him out of all his troubles … O taste and see that the Lord is good … those who seek the Lord shall not lack any good thing … [Sing] to Him a new song; play skillfully with a shout of joy….” (Psalm 33:3; 34:4-6,8,10).

Now, let’s look at the application to our lives in the midst of our workplaces, homes and communities.

Every believer walks in victory, all the time. There should be (yes, must be) songs of deliverance and shouts of joy on our lips. A watching world knows nothing of this victory in the believer’s life. But God is honored when there is a constant “shout of joy” on our lips, when we together shout out the coming victory we are expecting from our Lord, in Whom we have placed our faith.

What a witness this will be: joy, in the midst of trouble, because of our God. How greatly encouraging this will be to the ones who may have become discouraged or even disheartened among God’s people. And how deeply honoring to God this is, when His children believe Him, trust Him and live according to such faith.



Pretending I’m Fine or Proving I’m Right

 

 

Lysa TerKeurst

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The godly way to deal with hurt is by approaching the situation with soul integrity—responding in a way that’s honest but also peacemaking.

“But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere.” James 3:17 (NIV)

If someone says something or does something that hurts me, what is the godly response? Is it to pretend like everything is fine so I can keep the peace? Or is it confronting the person to prove how wrong they are?

Neither.

If ever I catch myself pretending or proving, I know I’m processing my hurt the wrong way.

The godly way is approaching this situation with soul integrity—responding in a way that’s honest but also peacemaking. James 3:17 says, “But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure (honest); then peace-loving …” Yes, I want this kind of wisdom—this soul integrity. I want to be honest and peacemaking at the same time. But how?

I must remember I need real honesty combined with real peacemaking.

Real Honesty

Not all honest expressions of my feelings are real honesty. You see, my honest feelings may not be truthful assessments of the situation. I can be honest with how I feel and still exaggerate or misinterpret what is factually true. I can feel justified in being blatant about my feelings—not hiding a thing—and prideful for being so real, all under the guise of being honest enough not to stuff.

But in reality, honesty that isn’t true isn’t honesty at all. It may just be emotional spewing. That’s why we need peacemaking honesty—honesty reined in by the Holy Spirit—if we’re going to have authentic soul integrity.

So, if I want real honesty, I have to ask the Holy Spirit to show me real truth. I need to see things from the other person’s perspective. I need to ask questions of them with the desire to better understand instead of throwing out statements of accusation. Ultimately my goal should be to add peacemaking to my honesty.

Real Peacemaking

It must grieve God to see plastic versions of peacemaking that aren’t reined in by honesty. That’s what we do when we stuff and pretend everything is okay. The upside to stuffing is that we have the semblance of peacemakers. But when we do this at the expense of honesty, we harbor a corrosive bitterness that will eventually emerge. Either it will erode our health and later present itself in a host of emotional and physical anxiety-induced illnesses, or it will accumulate over time and surprise everyone when the peacemaker eventually erupts. Saying “I’m fine” to keep the peace, when we’re really not fine, isn’t honest.

Sometimes dishonesty comes in the form of saying things that aren’t true. But it’s also dishonest when we don’t say things that are true.

It may seem godly in the moment, but it’s false godliness. Truth and godliness always walk hand-in-hand. The minute we divorce one from the other, we stray from soul integrity and give a foothold to the instability that inevitably leads to coming unglued.

Yes, we’re after soul integrity—honesty that is also peacemaking that leads to godliness. This soul integrity brings balance to unglued reactions. It makes us true peacemakers—people who aren’t proving or pretending but rather honestly demonstrating what they are experiencing in a godly manner.

And being a true peacemaker reaps a harvest of great qualities in our lives: right things, godly things, healthy things.

Dear Lord, through You I am able to bring all my exploding and stuffing under Your authority and truth. Thank You for Your Holy Spirit who gives me the wisdom to move beyond my reactions. Help me lean on You. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

Reflect and Respond:
Is the Lord moving you towards real honesty, real peacemaking or a combination today?

Thinking about your current relationships, what are some practical applications you can make as you pursue soul integrity?

Power Verses:
2 Corinthians 13:11, “Finally, brothers, rejoice. Aim for restoration, comfort one another, agree with one another, live in peace; and the God of love and peace will be with you.” (ESV)

James 3:18, “And a harvest of righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace.” (ESV)